Comments on: Christian Dating

By: big daddy C-14

big daddy C-14 — Thu, 03 Mar 2005 05:35:51 +0000

SCORE!!! i’ve cyber pimped myself again. i’ll let you know when i’m in athens again. h&f, rawk on!

By: Hot and Flirtatious

Hot and Flirtatious — Wed, 02 Mar 2005 18:45:41 +0000

Yes actually I am single now…I am however not looking for a relationship. I am open to casual dating and making out though . Under 20 need not apply .

By: big daddy C-14

big daddy C-14 — Wed, 02 Mar 2005 02:03:23 +0000

wow, i never once realized a few comments would cause such a stir.

hot and flirtatious, you’re gratitude is well accepted. i realize that a majority of guys are really afraid to ask ladies out. (yes, i realize that i’m putting down the lot of us…but he who is without guilt cast the first stone.) through some self-exploration of my own psychology and that of my close friends, i’ve found that the reason most guys are afraid is because most guys aren’t comfortable being around females. thus, in return, makes them afraid to approach them.

so h&f, i hear you’re single now…

By: Hot and Flirtatious

Hot and Flirtatious — Tue, 01 Mar 2005 22:06:53 +0000

Did you just call the guys chicken when you didn’t even put a name on your post? I’ll say that from experience Matt has no problem asking girls out…and I feel like he gave equal time to guys thaking the responsibility as well as girls. And big daddy C-14…thanks for the comments…b/c i’ve definitley been fed up w/ guys waiting for them to “grow a set”…I do however not feel it’s my place to ask the guy, but if they don’t know I like them how are the “chicken” Christian guys ever going to suck it up enough to ask me? And me asking them would surely convey that message, unless they are insanely dense, which I hope nobody that dense exists. It’s nice to know however that there are guys out there who aren’t “chicken” and will make a move…girls like me appreciate that…a lot.

By: Capt' Matt

Capt' Matt — Tue, 01 Mar 2005 21:37:42 +0000

Ok normally i don’t feel the necessity to defend myself however ‘…’ is ignorant of prior ramblings. please check some of my previous postings to clear up any idea that you have about me asking girls out. and continue to check for further updates.

By: big daddy C-14

big daddy C-14 — Tue, 01 Mar 2005 04:06:35 +0000

um, no. the second greatest relationship that i was in was the one where the girl didn’t want to go out but i was persistent and she eventually gave in. and no, i don’t have a fear of rejection. most of my friends will tell you that, eh capt. matt?

By: I agree matt

I agree matt — Tue, 01 Mar 2005 03:45:37 +0000

You are right on matt. I had a girl ask me out and 6.5months later we were married. As long as God is first in your relationship he will bless it.

By: ...

... — Tue, 01 Mar 2005 02:34:08 +0000

Chicken… you just don’t wanna get rejected, so you go tell everyone it’s the girl’s job. With that attitude… uh uh. *snaps fingers in a “z” shape while swaying head from side to side*

By: big daddy C-14

big daddy C-14 — Mon, 28 Feb 2005 20:26:44 +0000

quiet an inquisitive insight, matthew.

i’ll just add and say that the one relationship that i was in where the girl asked me out was probably the best one i’ve had so far. while at first it was odd and unusual not being the pursuer, it was really neat because i knew for a fact that she was completely interested in me. the only reason we aren’t together today is distance.

so ladies, if you are interested in a guy don’t hesitate to ask him out. it could be the best thing you could ever do for yourself.

By: Artie, writer of Artie'cles

Artie, writer of Artie'cles — Mon, 28 Feb 2005 19:03:15 +0000

Yes Matt. Well put. I agree.
I should have saved all of my postings for an artie’cle. I need to write one of those. Yes.

While you are not my dating scene mentor, I agree that the advice is good.